Also, you have to do it by her standards, not by yours, because she is the one who has been wrongerd, and not you. It took him about 2 months before he finally reeled me in, now we are so happy with each other and truly are in love, love really has to have trust or it isn’t going to work out. Go ahead and read our article about narcissists later.For now, it’s important to answer the question of whether cheaters regret cheating. He has risked losing you, so now he needs to prove that he will do anything to make up for it and keep you. My son even told me that he and his buds are TERRIBLE that way, they give their buds a hard time when they are treating a girl well, and high fives when they treat her not so well. you obey those rules or else. Creating a healthy intimate relationship is about much more than finding the “perfect” partner. Imposing these harsh restrictions on you (not that I hold you blameless) is not showing grace; it’s lording over you. He is taking responsibility for it and not blaming anyone else.Karl T – How ironic that you are scolding others for interpreting his statement that his friend “egged him on” for blaming. People cheat, and people lie but even though your cheater might lie, the signs that he regrets cheating won’t lie.The first of the signs he regrets cheating is if he ends the affair immediately, without thinking about it. 3 years ago. Not a good sign.James why did you cheat? It might not happen right away, but it must happen eventually, or the relationship is doomed.Sorry to go all pschyco-analytical on you, but this sort of thing rather fascinates me a little bit.James, I ‘m sorry to say that the last part of your update is unintentionally hilarious: “The GPS tracker is still there unfortunately, but I’m sure eventually in a few more weeks I can remove that too.” You really do sound like someone who has just been released from jail and is on parole as opposed to someone working on a relationship.

I hope she stops doing that stuff, I don’t think it is going to work out if she keeps that up.Maybe she should reevaluate her choice in men..and start to value her worth!! Tony . Out of these cookies, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. He should know that words don’t mean much to you after this, so it’s not enough that he says, “I love you,” and instead he needs to prove it.All contact with the other woman has to stop immediately.